Idea Bug
July 13, 2008
I always have ideas on how to make things better in the world, make better websites, and make money online [or off]. It is a trait that most people with ADD/ADHD have to deal with. Generally the ideas are great and could work if I sat down and worked on them long enough, but I just cannot keep my focus. It is not that I am lazy or do not want to do it; it is that once I set out to do it, I get sidetracked with another genius idea or research for another project. I love working on new things, but as I am always finding new things, I am always finding something to distract me. Read more
Complexity
July 6, 2008
The mind is a powerful tool. My mind in particular is always going; it is always formulating a new task, goal, idea, or scenario. With that said, I always have something to say, but do not always know how to say it. Because everything is always so jumbled in my complex mind, I cannot always get it out! Sometimes it is not even that I cannot get it out, it is merely that I do not have the time or the focus. Like right now I have a blog post waiting to be posted that I have yet to finish writing. It will be a long one to say the least, but I am not in the right mind frame to finish. I would have finished it when I started it, but I got too busy to do so, and now it remains in my drafts folder. I hate it because it will be a good post (as all my posts are, lol); I say this because it will be full of meat. Read more
Tags: complex
How to Become a Lesbian
July 5, 2008
Well you heard it right folks; if you want to become a lesbian, there are some crucial measures that you must take in order to reach such glory. So without further ado:
1. You must only like, love, and be with women. This is the heart of lesbianism. If you cannot adhere to this step, do not continue to the next steps. Go back and play with your girlfriends you sex fiend. We know we do it better, but you do not have to play with our emotions and pretend to be something you are not. There are those lesbians out there that would love to take advantage of you, or you can just have fun with your friends. Leave us others out of it. Read more
Tags: become a lesbian, lesbianism
Why US?
July 2, 2008
The United States is a superpower that runs to the aid of third world countries because that is their role as big brother…no pun intended…really. Trouble is, why aren’t they keeping up with their own household first? We have national debt, homeless VETS, corrupt officials, and troubles in our own homeland that need to be taken care of before we can help someone else. Why not? Why not better our country? Let the other countries better their realms as they please while we do ours as we please. Read more
Tags: United States
Numero Uno
June 30, 2008
In my previous post, I spoke of looking out for numero uno; or rather, that in looking out for number one, we should not exclude our friends, family, and partners. Yet I did not touch on the idea of actually taking care of yourself in doing so.
In a relationship, it is often common to see one partner being more dominant than the other. Whether this is a gender-based role that the two have taken on or a role that just developed over time, one is more in control than the other. Often the one shadows the other taking what they want, need, or just plain have to have while putting their partner second each time. They include them when needed no doubt, but usually they are not needed. Read more
Tags: relationship
ComPROMISE
June 17, 2008
The subtle art of give and take is often one that is hard to master especially in a relationship. Think about it: you grow up as a kid having to listen to others tell you what to do so you look forward to growing up and being your own person. You work towards independence and taking care of numero uno. Compromise does not look out for number one.
But what is a relationship but a joint venture of two individuals? You sacrifice the ‘I’ for ‘us.’ What it comes down to now is ‘is it worth it?’ When you are seeing someone, engaged, or even married, you are committing part of yourself to another person if not more. This means you cannot constantly be making decisions that are only beneficial to yourself or without considering your partner. While yes, there are some decisions that can and should be made for yourself and by yourself, important decisions should involve your significant other.
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Tags: decisions, significant other
Word!
June 3, 2008
Never try to play mind games with anyone of some intelligence; even better still, never play them with a genius. A genius can not only follow, but also trip you up. You have to backtrack, find where you went wrong, and then correct it. Then it no longer has any clout; you just changed it to fit your needs. To fit your vision.
Why try the games with a fellow intellect? And then look at them like they are dumb? Like they do not actually realize what the hell you are saying? You know they know, but still try to run the circles in their head hoping this time it will work. It doesn’t. Now what? Read more
Tags: mind games, intelligence
